• Skip to primary navigation
  • Skip to main content
  • Skip to primary sidebar

WhyWeSuffer.com

Transformative Insights from Depth Psychology

  • BASIC PRINCIPLE
  • About
  • Services
  • Comments
  • Contact
  • Books
  • Show Search
Hide Search

The President Hears from Dr. Freud

Peter Michaelson · April 25, 2025 ·

Were Sigmund Freud around to muse on the man in the White House, how might he analyze the president and the people who support him?

Exposing the deeper nature of conflict.

Theories abound for why Donald Trump twice became president. These include the effects of culture wars, wealth disparity, politically biased news, and political dysfunction. Freud would say, however, that dysfunction in the human psyche is the key consideration. He would contend that a great many of the people who voted for Trump were unconsciously falsifying reality, mainly out of resistance to recognizing and overcoming their neurosis.

To develop this thought, let’s first visit the set of The Apprentice, the television show where Trump, in the decade before first becoming president in 2017, acquired national celebrity. On the show, he played a powerful business executive who judged the worthiness of job-seeking candidates.

The show was a big hit. Viewers loved to see people getting fired by Trump. He was compelling in this role, but not so much because of him personally. In his cold-hearted way, he stirred up in viewers their willingness to take wanton gratification in the downfall of others. The show’s viewers resonated emotionally with the passive helplessness of the job candidates who anxiously and fearfully awaited their fate, as dished out by Trump. Why would TV viewers find this cheerless situation so alluring? The answer is found in our passive relationship to our inner critic.

As Freud asserted, just about everybody has a hidden master in their psyche, called the inner critic or superego. It often operates with calculating cruelty, as Trump did on his TV show. The superego is a primitive drive in our psyche that discharges self-aggression and seeks punishment. It instinctively faults us and judges us unworthy. This self-aggression arises when natural biological aggression, blocked from being expended outward by the child’s physical weakness, turns inward against the child’s weak link, the developing ego. This dynamic usually lingers in adults and creates inner conflict.

The more neurotic an individual, the greater the inner conflict and the more this person experiences the world through dissension, victimhood, misery, and folly.

With inner conflict, the superego attacks and the unconscious ego defends. When active, this inner conflict has us bouncing emotionally back and forth between feelings of weakness versus strength, self-doubt versus self-assurance, and goodness versus wrongdoing in ways that make us moody if not miserable and prone to self-defeat. We get locked into the conflict and fail to acquire the knowledge that would free us.

In this light, let’s consider again what happened on The Apprentice. Dependably, Trump fired someone every week. He humiliated job seekers for presumably being unfit and unworthy. Watching this, viewers resonated emotionally with the job-seeking candidate at the mercy of Trump, just as they resonated unconsciously with the feeling of being at the mercy of their superego.

As an unconscious defense against this weakness, they claimed they identified not with the wretch who was fired but with the arbitrary power displayed by Trump. His cruel power provided them with this defense: “I identify with strength and aggression, not with weakness!” Their gratification in identifying with “strongman” Trump covered up their bittersweet resonance with the victim.

This way the show’s avid viewers could have their cake and eat it, too. Unconsciously, they could thrill to the feel of Trump’s power while passively enjoying the schadenfreude, the harm-joy of other’s pain and humiliation that mirrored the passive double-dealing that neurotic people have with their superego.

Trump is the poster boy for his followers’ refusal to see themselves objectively. This produces loyalty to Trump—or at least to what he represents. He’s a master of self-deception, and his followers take their cues from him. Still, they are loyal not so much to him as to their own egoistic bias, psychological defenses, and bittersweet taste for suffering. Trump is a leader of the widespread refusal to grow psychologically, morally, and spiritually. This resistance to self-development is visible in the widespread opposition to the current “Woke” ethos, the striving to become more conscious and more willing to know reality rather than to falsify it.

Let’s duck back briefly into this deep knowledge. The unconscious ego is largely passive (psychoanalysis has referred to it as the subordinate ego). Its defenses tend to be unstable and ineffective when it engages with the superego. Most people identify with this passive side of inner conflict, while tyrants, criminals, and psychopaths are the Frankenstein monsters of the superego, the aggressive side of inner conflict. The superego’s nature is the cornerstone of fascism, and we need our better self, enlightened by inner truth, to defeat this dark side of us.

Most people, in varying degrees, are unconsciously sensitive to (and fearful of) the superego’s intrusions. The superego is often the source of stress, tension, worry, and anxiety. Under the superego’s thumb, we feel persistently weak in certain contexts. We unwittingly allow life’s challenges to trigger this passive weakness. In daily life, many of us are quick to feel oppressed and dominated by certain people, institutions, and circumstances. Succumbing consistently to cravings and peer pressure are also everyday examples of the ubiquity of the passive side.

Consciously, we dislike feeling controlled or helpless, yet we’re often quick to react to situations, even benign ones, as if we are indeed being controlled and rendered helpless. We’re likely at such times to spin off into anger, self-recrimination, and self-pity. Unconsciously, we often experience feelings of oppression and helplessness in a bittersweet way, and we unwittingly recycle these feelings and indulge in the misery.

The ongoing inner conflict between the passive and aggressive sides in our psyche produces many symptoms, including stress, anxiety, procrastination, indecision, guilt, shame, timidity, and stupidity. (Stupidity arises from how, unconsciously, we scramble to falsify reality, employing psychological defenses that cover up our passive tolerance of the superego’s tyranny.) Meanwhile, most of us aren’t aware of how much we experience the world through inner passivity and fear.

Trump looks for weakness in others. Cunningly and instinctively, he weaponizes the weakness of his followers. He exhorts them to fight—but the real fight, of which he and they are unaware, is the battle to safeguard their idealized ego, even though this sacrifices their better self. They are fighting to deny their deep, unconscious willingness to remain identified with weakness, fear, victimization, and defeat. Their own self-alienation produces alienation with others. National disunity now feels more like the natural order, while anger, indignation, and an emotional affinity for raw power produce illusions of substance and rationality.

The Apprentice was “perfect” for Trump because it sustained his compulsion to focus on the supposed weakness of others and their “justified” humiliation (“Governor” Trudeau, as one of many examples). By fixating on the presumed weakness of others, he projects on to them his profound psychological disconnect from a better self. In this process, he represses his terror of being inconsequential.

Most people can at times feel some measure of unworthiness. Deep in the psyche, many identify with being an unworthy, lesser person, and they instinctively cover up this inner truth. As part of the coverup, they become desperate to feel superior to certain others: “I’m somebody—and you’re nobody!” Trump’s followers make immigrants “contemptible nobodies” who don’t belong here. Making the other “a nobody” hides a person’s repressed identification with being a nobody. We repress a lot of inner fear with doubts about our worthiness.

Trump is a profoundly fearful person, akin in this way to fear-of-his-shadow Joe McCarthy. Through his projections, Trump avoids self-reflection and fights off inner fear. Unconsciously, he greatly fears exposure (especially to himself) of the degree to which he is so psychologically and morally impoverished. This is why he craves attention and looks so often into news cameras during interviews. He needs attention, power, and wealth to compensate for his inner poverty and repressed fear of being a nobody. It’s no coincidence that he generates so much fear in the world. He casts out upon the world what eats away at him from the inside.

The chaos in Trump’s psyche compels him to be an agent of chaos in the world. His inner conflict has him swinging between the passive and aggressive postures in the psyche: He is passively bemused and easily influenced in some situations and vulgar and belligerent in others, mirroring the two poles of inner conflict. Right and wrong become incidental to being at the center of attention and power, all to deny the black hole inside. Meanwhile, loyal insiders who share his disconnect from a better self are there to identify with his power, to spotlight their importance, and to protect him and themselves from awareness of their inner plight.

Democracy is on tilt and mental-health trends are going in the wrong direction. Democracy depends on our collective mental health, yet modern psychology and psychiatry do not show clearly enough the nature of the dysfunction that undermines us from within. If we remain blind to our entanglement in inner conflict and unaware of our passive participation in it, we are more likely to lead ourselves and our world into worsening wretchedness.

—

My books describe the numerous ways we become trapped in inner conflict. They’re available here at Amazon.

Print Friendly, PDF & Email

Share This:

Filed Under: Psychoanalysis Tagged With: inner critic, mental health, neurosis, passive nature, The Apprentice

Primary Sidebar

MOST OF OUR suffering is avoidable. Our emotional and behavioral problems can be resolved. We just have to understand how our psyche works. This website is dedicated to teaching vital psychological knowledge. Do you need help to curb drinking or to get off drugs? Are you facing a divorce or a career failure? Are you anxious, depressed, or overwhelmed by life's challenges? Perhaps you're simply unable to get your mind or intelligence into high gear. I can help. I'm Peter Michaelson, an author and psychotherapist in Ann Arbor, Michigan. I teach people how to overcome unconscious programming that produces suffering and self-defeat.

WHY WE SUFFER–THE BOOK

My book, Why We Suffer--A Western Way to Understand and Let Go of Unhappiness, is the story of what mainstream psychology has failed to teach the world. The depth psychology in this book has vital insights, answers, and solutions for you. Click on the Books link above for more information. --

Other Articles

  • The President Hears from Dr. Freud
  • People Who Hate Love
  • The Language that Liberates the Self
  • Dare We See the Trump in Us?
  • The Emotional Catering Service
  • Are You Addicted to Self-Punishment?
  • A Hidden Cause of Loneliness
  • The Impulse to Destroy Democracy
  • We Get Stronger by Seeing Our Weakness
  • The Warmonger in Our Psyche
  • Armed with Stubbornness, the Weak Go on the Warpath
  • How to Rescue Yourself from Suffering
  • My New Book (of Poetry!) Is Versed in Depth Psychology
  • Finding in Self the Richness of Being
  • Sports Fans and Their Discontents
  • Two Terrible Voices in Your Head
  • Why People Support Donald Trump
  • The Vital Knowledge We Disown
  • Climate Anxiety and the Psyche
  • Abandonment, Self-Abandonment, and Democracy
  • Our Readiness to Feel Controlled
  • The Key to Emotional Self-Regulation
  • Seven Villains in a Sad Love Story
  • The Latest Pandemic: Feeling Overwhelmed
  • The Blindness of the Species
  • Why Americans Are So Wretchedly Divided
  • Are You Passive to Your Mind?
  • What Freud Knew That We Still Hate to See
  • The Emotional Conflict Behind 50 Mental-Health Symptoms
  • A Novelist’s Quest to Unravel His Madness
  • When Inner Growth Feels Impossibly Difficult
  • Haunted by Incessant Wanting
  • My New Book: Healing Our Deadly Flaw
  • Inner Conflict’s Role in Child Suicide
  • Putin’s Psyche
  • The Flaw Wars that Sabotage Relationships
  • Can You Be Your Own Therapist?
  • The Difference Between Learned Helplessness and Inner Passivity
  • The Sad Sordidness of Inner Conflict
  • The Deep Knowledge that Liberates the Self
  • The Four Dimensions of Our Ego
  • Are You Overly Sensitive to Rejection?
  • Evolving Consciousness is the Lifeblood of Mental Health
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 9)
  • Don’t Be Duped by Your Defenses
  • The Shocking Secrets of the Psyche
  • The Undercover Enabler of Habitual Oversleeping
  • Understanding the Assault on the U.S. Capitol
  • The Sheepishness of the Psyche: A One-Act Play
  • Three Self-Defeating Reactions at the Heart of American Disunity
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 8)
  • Our Compulsion to Self-Punish
  • Ego and Self Do Battle for the Soul of America
  • The Hazards of Inner Conflict
  • A Toxic Inner Process Afflicts Humanity
  • Don’t Let America Betray Herself
  • Inner Conflict Ripens in the Hothouse of Pandemic
  • Living and Dying with Coronavirus
  • How the Coronavirus Plays with Our Mind
  • Access the Genius Within
  • How Meditation and Depth Psychology Overlap
  • Guilt: A Favorite Way to Suffer
  • Understanding the Psyche of Boys
  • The Joy of Militant Ignorance
  • Answers to Questions From Readers (Part 7)
  • Breaking the Chains of Self-Imposed Oppression
  • Jordan Peterson’s Blind Spot
  • Learning to See Ourselves Objectively
  • When Food is Used to Feed Inner Conflict
  • How You Can Save the World
  • The Inner Critic is a Primitive Brute Force
  • The Self-Defeat of Passive Morning Thoughts
  • Get Rid of Guilt with Deeper Insight (II)
  • Discover Sublimation, the Agent of Success
  • The U.S. Government’s Flawed Intelligence on Clinical Depression
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 6)
  • 12 Ways We Fail to See or Experience Reality
  • Is Ambivalence a Hidden Factor in Much of Human Misery?
  • Inner Conflict is the Source of Cognitive Distortion
  • A Psychological Hindrance to National Unity
  • A Technique for Overcoming Insomnia
  • Liberals Need More Psychological Insight
  • Why We Urgently Need Inner Truth
  • Notes to Psychotherapists on Addressing Inner Passivity
  • Are You Living Your True Story?
  • Another Visual Portrayal of Our Psyche’s Dynamics
  • Get to Know Your Psyche’s Operating Systems
  • Illustrating the Characters Who Mess With Our Mind
  • How to Love Yourself
  • Don’t Let Inner Passivity Undermine Democracy
  • Connecting With Our Best Self
  • The Deeper Roots of Social Unrest
  • The Las Vegas Killer’s Hidden Motive
  • My Latest Book is Now Available
  • Insight that Conquers Incessant Negative Thinking
  • New Editions of All My Books Now Available
  • The Exhausting Race against Time
  • The Perils of Past, Present, and Future
  • The Mocking Voice of Inner Resistance
  • The Essentials of Empowerment for Enablers and Codependents
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 5)
  • The Appeal of Alternative Facts
  • Are You a Clone of Your Identifications?
  • Unmasking Fear Itself
  • Fundamentalism and the Psyche
  • Ascending to Joy
  • Now’s the Time for Heroes
  • Feeling Like a Fraud or an Imposter?
  • The Invisible Wall of Psychological Resistance
  • Cognitive Therapy’s Flawed Premise
  • Dealing with Election Aftershock
  • After the Election: Healing the Divide
  • Collapsing into Helplessness
  • Solve the Mystery of Your Suffering
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 4)
  • An Insightful Case of Self-Injury
  • Understanding Inner Evil in Mass-Killers
  • A Common Theme in Relationship Strife
  • Breaking Free of Inner Passivity
  • Are You Hopeless of Ever Finding Love?
  • Words to Enlighten Younger Children
  • Deeper Reflections on Inner Passivity
  • Escape the Misery of Moodiness
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 3)
  • Emotional Fortitude for Anxious Times
  • Follow Your Fantasies to Self-Awareness
  • Answers to Questions from Readers (Part 2)
  • The Art of Self-Regulation
  • The Thrill of Fear
  • Answers to Questions from Readers
  • “Why Am I so Easily Discouraged?”
  • Paris and Our Discontents
  • Unconscious Bias in Race Relations
  • Acquiring a Feel for Natural Aggression
  • Defensiveness for Dummies
  • Exposing the Roots of Emotional Suffering
  • Who Wants to Be a Celebrity?
  • Say Goodbye to Your Regrets
  • How to Recognize Good Psychotherapy
  • Visions of Human Destiny
  • Tears of Self-Deception
  • Westerners Who Identify with Terrorists
  • A Decisive Look at Indecision
  • Neurotics on Capitol Hill
  • Inner Passivity Impairs Leadership Skills
  • Hidden Dynamics of Racism
  • Unconscious Factors Fuel Abortion Fight
  • The Two-Minute Inner Workout
  • Defeating the Inner Bully
  • When Life Becomes Unreal and Dreamlike
  • Releasing Inner Passivity
  • Deliverance from Addictions & Compulsions
  • Life’s Painful Entanglements (Part II)
  • Insight into Gender Identity Disorder
  • The Psychology of Wealth Disparity
  • How Do We Achieve Self-Control?
  • Anger and the APA
  • A Painful Game People Play (Part I)
  • Prisoners of Guilt
  • Neurosis Unbound
  • The Lingering Pain of Old Shame
  • Emerging from Shyness
  • An Unconscious Factor in PTSD
  • When in Doubt about Sexual Orientation
  • Why Students Fail to Learn
  • How to Enhance Your Verbal Skill
  • Be Brave when Truth Comes Knocking
  • What Warps the Mind of Domestic Terrorists?
  • Greed as a Mental-Health Disorder
  • The Core of Being
  • The Folly of Modern Psychology
  • The Scoop on Intimate Partner Abuse
  • Tormented Mothers, Endangered Babies
  • Terrific Knowledge for Trying Times
  • Stung by Ingratitude
  • How to Be Your Own Inner Guide
  • Does Inner Growth Require Practical Steps?
  • A Remedy for Feeling Trapped
  • The Golden Rule Needs Depth Psychology
  • A Deadly Case of Inner Conflict
  • Vital Knowledge for Marriage Intimacy
  • Stressed Out in America
  • Four Steps to Stifle Our Inner Critic
  • Oh, Sweet Narcissism
  • The Pain We Lock Away
  • Cognitive Therapy’s Distorted Thinking
  • Indecisive No More
  • Chasing the Shadow
  • How Inner Passivity Robs Men of Power
  • A New Understanding of Bipolar Disorder
  • A Chaos Theory of the Mind
  • Free Yourself from Inner Conflict
  • Curbing Our Appetite for Brutality
  • The Futility of Compulsive Approval-Seeking
  • How Worriers Unconsciously Chose to Suffer
  • Get to Know Your Psychological Defenses
  • The Love Song of the Self
  • Finding Inner Longitude
  • Overcoming a Type of Resistance to Studying
  • Understanding Anorexia
  • The Human Weakness behind Alcoholism
  • Rebutting 9/11 Conspiracy Beliefs
  • Achieving Inner Freedom
  • The Mysterious Allure of Kinky Sex
  • Hooked on Deprivation
  • Aspects of Women’s Empowerment (Part II)
  • Men’s Resistance to Women’s Empowerment
  • The Missing Link in OCD
  • A Hidden Reason for Suicidal Thoughts
  • Overcoming Fear of Intimacy
  • O Shame, Where is Thy Secret Source?
  • The Correct Interpretation of Our Dreams
  • Escaping the Clutches of Helplessness
  • The Double Barrels of Gun Mania
  • Exterminate Infestations of Negative Thoughts
  • The Psychology Behind Mass Shootings
  • Our Messy Mix of Aggression and Passivity
  • Speeding Up Our Evolution
  • Why Our Emotional Suffering Persists
  • Easing Tension and Stress at Family Gatherings
  • Wallowing in the Lap of Bitterness
  • The Hidden Dynamics of Marital Strife
  • The Psychological Roots of National Disunity
  • The Futile Dialogue in Our Head
  • Psychologists of the World, Go Deeper
  • When You Feel Bad About Yourself
  • Cultivating a Life of Disappointment
  • Lost in the Fog of Inner Passivity
  • The Private Joke behind Our Laughter
  • Why We Fear and Hate the Truth
  • When Eyes Are Blinders of the Soul
  • How Deeper Insight Relieves Stress
  • When Money Enriches Our Suffering
  • The Common Ingredient in Human Misery
  • The Infantile Basis of Our Fears
  • Cynicism: The Battle Cry of the Wimp
  • Desperately Seeking Validation
  • Being Seen in a Negative Light
  • The Need to Believe in Yourself
  • Why We Dither on Climate Change
  • Avoidable Miseries of the Workplace
  • Taming the “Little Monsters” of Insomnia
  • A Plague of Neurosis Upon Our House
  • The Origins of Feeling Overwhelmed
  • Teach Your Children Well
  • Why We’re Quick to “Go Negative”
  • 8 Ways We Sabotage Physical Health
  • Occupy the Psyche
  • The Astonishing Basis of Our Addictions
  • Deliverance From the Lonesome Blues
  • Our Global Strategy for Self-Defeat
  • The Mayo Clinic’s Bogus Psychology
  • The Meaning of Evolved Consciousness
  • The Hanky-Panky Behind Our Anger
  • Lincoln’s Integrity, Our Integrity
  • Stubbornness: The Guts to Fight Reality
  • A Participant in National Self-Sabotage
  • Underlying Dynamics that Breed Bullies
  • Deliverance from Low-Level Anxiety
  • The Politburo in Your Psyche
  • Nagging: Love Destroyer, Marriage Killer
  • A Singular Cause of War
  • The Temptations of the Injustice Collector
  • The Dire Determinants of Divorce
  • Enjoy the Quality of Your Consciousness
  • The Helplessness Trap in Cravings & Addictions
  • Mark Twain’s Mysterious Misery-Machine
  • Obesity and the Dopamine Fallacy
  • Four Favorite Ways to Suffer
  • The Deeper Issues that Produce Meanness
  • Panic Attacks Arise from Within Our Psyche
  • The Overlooked Factor in Criminal Behavior
  • The Three Amigos of Woe
  • Overcoming Incompetence and Its Miseries
  • Three Great Truths from Psychology
  • The Hidden Cause of Clinical Depression
  • Terrorism and the Death Drive
  • Welcome Aboard the Voyage of Self-Discovery
  • The Bittersweet Allure of Feeling Unloved
  • How Inner Fear Becomes Our Worst Nightmare
  • The Problem with Positive Psychology
  • Respect, Disrespect, and Self-Respect
  • Neither a Procrastinator Nor a Dawdler Be
  • Prose to Shatter Writer’s Block
  • Stop Smoking through Psychological Insight
  • The Secret Allures of Pornography
  • How Deeper Awareness Can Eliminate Shame
  • When Sexual Desire Covers Up Self-Sabotage
  • The Dreary Distress of Boredom
  • Problem Gamblers are Addicted to Losing
  • The Tyrant that Rules Our Inner Life
  • The Negative Emotions Behind Addictions
  • Beware the Limitations of Superficial Psychology
  • Get Rid of Guilt with Deeper Insight
  • Riding the Emotional Wave of Turbulent Times

Article Archives



Copyright © 2025 WhyWeSuffer